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GalleryFor my final week of my Premium Membership, I decided to write a quick little Journal on behalf of the LGBTQ community. Bear with me, folks.
It absolutely is about choice. The choice of remaining trapped in this "safe zone" and living a lie, or coming out in the light and being at the world's mercy. The gay boy who has to choose between marrying a woman for his parents' happiness, or finding the man of his dreams and living happily together. The lesbian girl who has to choose between hiding behind a boyfriend, or risk being seen as little more than 'soft porn' for simply stepping out in public with her girlfriend. The bisexual individual who has to choose between repressing their attraction toward one sex or be reminded of how 'confused' or 'whorish' they are. The asexual individual who has to choose between caving in to others' sexual cravings to 'keep the relationship alive', or search for the one love that will love them for their personality, for their heart, for their mind, and for their soul, not for their body. The trans boy who has to choose between subjecting themselves to baby-making to gain social acceptance, or seek acceptance as a man amongst the "Tomboy" and "Butch" accusations. The trans* girl who has to choose between 'being a player', or risk being beaten to death as a "cross-dressing freak". The non-binary, genderqueer, or gender-fluid individual who has to choose between solidly presenting themselves as either male or female, or mash-up whatever fashion (hairstyle, clothes, makeup, etc.) they wish to express their "rebellious juvenile" selves. All of it, every single one of those, involve choices. Even if you don't fall into any of these categories, you too have a choice...the choice to be as rudely opinionated as possible, or act respectfully toward these people as you meet them (whether you simply act sympathetic or genuinely respect them is up to you, as well). So, what will
you choose?
Note: As with everything else, there are grey areas in all these categories--not every man, gay or otherwise, is going to be pressured by his parents to marry anyone; not every woman, lesbian or otherwise, is going to be seen as a sex object to be lusted upon (and, yes, I'm aware the word "Butch" can be used in transgender contexts); not every asexual is opposed to having sex; not every trans* person is going to be insanely pressured into fulfilling their assigned-gender stereotype, nor are they going to strive to fulfill the stereotype of the gender they identify as...and I'm aware of the war against usage of the asterisk with the word 'trans'; and not every non-binary/genderqueer/gender-fluid person is going to hybridize traditionally male and female fashion styles. On the flip side, yes, I'm aware that, for plenty of individuals, the life problems listed are vastly over-simplified. All I mean to say is that, in general, these are very personal and very serious difficulties being faced by some individuals, and they shouldn't be taken lightly nor treated with scorn. Embrace the diversity of the people around you. You only have one lifetime to do so; don't waste it all hating the people you don't understand.
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TwiggyTeeluck